Originally drafted 1/1/2021
It wasn’t all bad. This year stretched me in ways I didn’t know I could be. I realized a “normal” life is beautiful and what I would give to be able to hop on a plane and go visit my best friend or catch up over a cup of coffee is really heartbreaking. But…. what 2020 did give me what a lot. I got resilience. There was a lot of times I didn’t know where to start, what to do, what the next move was and I did it anyway. Persisting in the face of the unknown has and probably always will be a weakness of mine but in certain cases I’ve created a new super power and taught myself that not knowing is half the fun.
Ive learned a lot about what’s important. I’ve spent more time with my family around our dinner table than in probably the last 5 years combined. We were always so busy with work and the kids sports and planning and doing things that we really didn’t focus on us. That has been so great for our family and so amazing to see our growth
Highlights: Jamaica, Brook got her license and turned 16, Troy graduated, Kaleb got to have almost a full season of baseball and played his last year with Prime, played on the Jr Grays and is now playing for the Renegades with his bestie Carson. We went to Wallace, biked the Hiawatha, visited the Center of the Universe, zip lined, and toured old silver mines. We made the transition to remote working with only a few hiccups. All of our travel plans were cancelled… all sports for the most part were cancelled. Troy started college, Kalebs started Middle School. Brook played volleyball, got covid and got in her first car accident the day before Halloween. We quarantined 3 times this year between September and December and everyone but Kalebs and brook who already had covid got Covid over Thanksgiving. The kids went to Mexico with their Dad and while they were gone (I also had covid) I had one of the hardest weeks mentally that I’ve had almost in my entire life which lead to a resolve to begin therapy again. To top the year off we wound out while we had covid that mike’s company lost their contract that they work on so his job is not secure past the end of the year. We celebrated Christmas with my brother and JD, ate too much, and had my gallbladder removed in the 28th.
Bonus points:
I kept all of my dentist appointments that weren’t rescheduled by covid.
What we do know is 2021 will be an adventure. And best adventures are those traveled together. So here’s to adventure and togetherness in 2021.